Last night Dh and I were hanging out with friends, dinner and drinks. I was texting one of my my bestie from HS, who lives four hrs from me, wishing her a happy birthday. I have known for sometime she and her husband were trying to have a baby. I asked if she had a baby on the way. she replied "well as a matter of fact yes. I'm having a girl in Dec. Sorry, it's been too hard for me to tell you." I tried to hold myself together, but I couldn't.
She is half way through her pregnancy and she did not tell me. I know she was trying to protect me, but I'm hurt! On top of everything I asked when she was having a shower, She said yes, next month. She said I could go if I want to. I'm not sure if she was even going to invite me.
Am I that fragile, that my BF form HS can't tell me she is pregnant? I would find out eventually. I'm one who would rather know if someone is pregnant. Get over my grief and then move on. I find it more hurtful when ppl keep secrets.
